As a Single Male looking to have a baby, why should I use your Agency?
We are here to help you fulfill your dream of becoming a parent! As thoroughly,
professionally and easily as possible, at the lowest possible cost.
The Basic Question: Why Do Single Men have Babies?
The basic issue why single men decide to have children is different for many of us. Perhaps it is instinctive as the need to perpetuate humans. We believe that the reason is deeper than that.
In a recent survey, the reasons included feeling that it was the right time (i.e. having 'worked through' concerns about single parenthood; career and financial stability; a fear of getting older; no longer wanting to wait for the 'right' relationship), external encouragement, a desire to reproduce and a fear of separation/divorce.
We believe that people choose to have children because they want to add love and joy to their lives. Loving, playing with and hugging your little one, giving and receiving affection makes our lives happier every day. The children also become a repository of our values, our personal dreams, hopes, knowledge that can continue long after we are gone.
“It’s about the need someone feels to complete themselves. Because kids do complete you. You also get a chance to teach, which is very important (as this is the only way to really learn), and it is a challenge of whether you will make it as a mentor and manage to inspire them the right principles”. Quote by Justin
They give you a reason to wake up, work hard and keep good health so you can be there for them. Children give sense to your life and make it worth living. They get rid of that sense that there is something missing in your life – what am I living for? What happens after I die – will anybody really care whether I live or die?? Children help answer these questions
In its place you now have a sense of being complete and a purpose to live for. Life is no longer about just yourself. Instead you are now in charge of this beautiful little bundle of joy, that you love, cherish and care for.
You now have a wonderful purpose in life that will happily replace your other goals. When you are old and frail, hopefully your child will be there to love you and protect you, just as you loved them when they were young.
How we can help
At Surrogacy4All it is our goal to ensure to the best of our ability, the long-term health and safety of everyone involved in the surrogacy process. This includes the Intended Parents, the Surrogate, the Egg Donor; and specially the babies.
To ensure this works for everyone, the first step is for us to meet with you by phone and preferably in person, to fully understand your needs, goals and desires. We view this as being a relationship where we support you throughout the surrogacy process, from the beginning until you have a beautiful baby in your arms.
Remember to make this work for everyone, we need to be able to match you as Intended Parents with the right Egg Donors, Surrogates and IVF Clinics, whose personalities and services provided fit your expectations.
How do you select the Egg Donor?
The Egg Donor is usually the first item to be addressed, and one of the most important parts of the process. While the Surrogate function is that of a carrier, the DNA of your baby will come from the baby. Your sperm will be mixed with her eggs at the IVF Clinic to create the embryos.
For many couples the generosity of the egg donor to donate her eggs, solves the heartbreaking issues associated with a lack of usable female eggs to have a baby. They are a fundamental part of helping intended parents create a family.
Most probably, you have a mental idea of the kind of donor you are looking for in terms of age, physical appearance, education, family history and personality. Our goal I to make this dream come true
For USA Egg Donors:
For an American Donor, as a starting point, we refer you to our affiliated website: www.IndianEggDonors.com, where we have over 1,000 Egg Donor profiles. Follow directions to log in and do a free search. Keep a list of the top five egg donors you like in order of preference and bring it with you when you come to see us. It will help us in helping you plan.
For Overseas Egg Donors:
Overseas donors are again usually selected based upon on your personal preferences. We offer several options:
1. Caucasian Egg Donors: These are usually from Eastern Europe including Ukraine as well as from Ghana. For a higher cost we can provide American donors who occasionally are willing to go overseas for an “Egg Donation” vacation. Frozen eggs are also available as an option.
2. Black Egg Donors: These we typically provide through the clinic overseas They are inexpensive and locally available. Again, for a higher cost we can provide American donors who occasionally are willing to go overseas for an “Egg Donation” vacation.
3. Indian Egg Donors: These are typically provided from Ghana. Indian las do not allow for the export of frozen eggs or embryos Again, for a higher cost we can provide American donors who occasionally are willing to go overseas for an “Egg Donation” vacation. Frozen eggs may also be available as an option Please let us know your preferences and we can arrange to send you several profiles for your review.
How Do You Select the Surrogate Mother?
The selection of the surrogate is itself an important decision. We recommend the surrogate to be a person who is not driven solely or even primarily by money. As part of our psychological screening we look for a surrogacy mother who combines the appropriate mixture of altruism and other motivations (“I like being pregnant”) along with the financial incentives.
Our best choice of surrogates typically is those that already have one or two children, do not want any more children of her own, liked being pregnant and liked helping other people. Basically a “good kind person”. Many come from the helping professions with careers as teachers or nurses and feel the most beautiful when they are pregnant.
One surrogate stated the reason she became a surrogate is because “No matter what else I do in my life, I will always feel I have done something to help make a meaningful defense in another person.
Should my Surrogacy be Anonymous?
The other important issue that comes up repeatedly is whether the surrogacy should be anonymous or not.
Surrogacy in the USA is on a fully disclosed basis:
In the USA, we feel that the best state laws for surrogacy is in California. In California, the surrogate name and contact information is fully disclosed in the surrogacy agreement, as the surrogate has the contact information for the Intended Parent.
California law requires that a copy of the gestational surrogacy agreement be filed with the court as part of the parentage action
This also allows the Intended Parent to share in and be a party to the pregnancy process – which is very important to many IPs.
Surrogacy Overseas is Anonymous:
Many Intended Parents prefer the anonymous nature of overseas surrogacy., Using foreign people as surrogates, reduces the chance of surrogate mother making demands and attempting to influence the way the child is raised in years to come.
Plus, the benefit of safety in distance. It takes the emotion out of the business arrangement and ensure you as the Intended Parent, can raise the child without any kind of outside interference.
At our agency we honor your decision and offer both options. The Choice is yours.
Once these decisions are made, then we will jointly help evaluate your choices and recommend to you some IVF Clinics, Law Firms, Escrow Agents and Financing Sources that will work best for you. to help you become the loving Intended Parents you want to be.
My sperm count is low? Any suggestions before I give a sample?
Many men will benefit by taking supplements before sperm donation. Our Holistic and Integrative Physicians recommend the following supplements for your use .
Begin Your Journey to having a Baby with us.
Our job at Surrogacy4All is to listen, to connect the dots between your needs and help you have the Bay you yearn for
We look forward to hearing from you.