What Is a Surrogate Mother and What Does She Do?

By Dr. Kulsoom Baloch

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Introduction

Surrogacy has become a trusted and transformative way for individuals and couples to build families. At the center of this process is the surrogate mother. But what exactly is her role, and what responsibilities does she have during the journey? This blog explains everything you need to know about surrogate mothers.

What Is a Surrogate Mother?

A surrogate mother is a woman who agrees to carry and deliver a baby for another person or couple (the intended parents). She undergoes medical treatment and commits to a pregnancy with the intent of giving the baby to the intended parents after birth.

Types of Surrogacy

• Gestational surrogacy: The surrogate is ‘not genetically related’ to the baby. An embryo created from the intended parent’s or donor’s egg and sperm is transferred to her uterus.
• Traditional surrogacy: The surrogate ‘uses her own egg’ making her the biological mother. This method is now rare due to legal and emotional complications.

What Does a Surrogate Mother Do?

• Undergoes medical screening and psychological evaluations
• Receives hormone therapy to prepare for embryo transfer
• Carries the pregnancy and attends all prenatal appointments
• Maintains healthy lifestyle and follows medical guidelines
• Gives birth and relinquishes the baby to the intended parents

Why Do Women Become Surrogates?

• To help others experience the joy of parenthood
• For the emotional reward of giving a life-changing gift
• To earn fair compensation for time, effort, and physical commitment

What Support Do Surrogates Receive?

• Full medical care throughout pregnancy
• Legal counsel and a binding surrogacy contract
• Emotional and psychological support
• Monthly compensation and reimbursement for pregnancy-related expenses

How Are Surrogate Mothers Protected Legally?

In gestational surrogacy, contracts clearly outline:

• Parental rights
• Compensation
• Medical decisions
• Confidentiality

These agreements protect both the surrogate and the intended parents.

Conclusion

Surrogate mothers play an extraordinary role in helping others achieve their dream of parenthood. Through compassion, commitment, and medical partnership, they make families possible. Surrogacy4All ensures that every surrogate is respected, supported, and cared for throughout the journey.