Is Surrogacy Right for Me? Quiz + Guide for Intended Parents

By Dr. Kulsoom Baloch

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Introduction

Surrogacy is a powerful path to parenthood, but it’s not the right choice for everyone. If you’re wondering whether this journey is right for your family, this guide—plus a short quiz—can help you explore your motivations, readiness, and options.

Quick Quiz: Is Surrogacy Right for You?

Answer YES or NO to the following:

• Have you been diagnosed with infertility or a condition preventing pregnancy?
• Are you a same-sex couple or single parent ready to raise a child?
• Do you feel emotionally and financially ready to support a surrogate pregnancy?
• Are you open to a long-term commitment with your surrogate and agency?
• Do you want a biological connection to your child through your own egg or sperm?

3+ YES answers: Surrogacy may be a strong fit. Read on to learn more.

Who Typically Uses Surrogacy?

• Individuals/couples with uterine conditions or past pregnancy trauma
• LGBTQ+ couples who need a gestational carrier
• Single parents pursuing biological children
• People who have tried IVF without success

Pros of Surrogacy

• Biological link to your child
• Legal parenthood secured through pre-birth orders
• Ability to be involved in every step of the pregnancy
• Growing trust and bond with the surrogate

Cons of Surrogacy

• High financial cost (average U.S. surrogacy is $100K+)
• Legal and ethical complexity
• Emotional ups and downs during matching and pregnancy
• Waiting periods for surrogate availability

What Makes Someone Ready for Surrogacy?

• You’ve explored alternatives (adoption, IVF)
• You’ve researched reputable agencies
• You understand the financial and emotional investment
• You have legal and emotional support

What Surrogacy4All Offers

As a physician-run agency, Surrogacy4All offers:

• Fast matching (1–3 months)
• Affordable options in the U.S. and internationally
• Legal pre-birth planning in all 50 states
• Concierge support for intended parents

Conclusion

Surrogacy is not a quick fix—but for many, it’s the most rewarding path to building a family. If your answers aligned with surrogacy, reach out to Surrogacy4All for a consultation and next steps.