Surrogacy Journey Diary: A Real Surrogate Shares Her Experience

Surrogacy is often called a “journey” — and for good reason. It’s emotional, beautiful, challenging, and deeply rewarding.

Today, we’re sharing the story of Rachel, a real surrogate who partnered with Surrogacy4All, to help Intended Parents realize their dream of parenthood.

Follow her diary through the stages of her incredible experience.

Why I Chose to Become a Surrogate

My name is Rachael B, I live in New York, am 32 years old, have two children of my own, am a stay at home mom and this is my story!

Diary Entry: Month 0

“I loved being pregnant with my own kids. I wanted to give that gift to someone else who couldn’t experience it.
I wasn’t doing it just for the money — it was something bigger, something meaningful.”

Rachel’s motivation echoes what many surrogates feel: a mix of compassion, empowerment, and pride.

Starting the Journey: Matching with Intended Parents

Diary Entry: Month 1–2

“The agency sent me several Intended Parent profiles. I immediately clicked with one couple — they lived nearby, they were sweet, and I could feel their longing to become parents.”

At Surrogacy4All, matches are based on shared values, communication style, and mutual respect — not just medical fit.
Rachel and her Intended Parents began exchanging emails, then video calls.

Medical Screening and Legal Steps

Diary Entry: Month 2–4

“The medical screening was thorough. Blood work, ultrasounds, psych evaluations. I was glad — it meant they cared about my safety too.”

After she cleared screening, Rachel worked with attorneys to finalize a surrogacy contract — protecting her, the baby, and the Intended Parents legally.

The Embryo Transfer Day

Diary Entry: Month 5

“I was so nervous and excited! The embryo transfer was quick — no pain, just hope. Waiting for the pregnancy test results was the hardest part.”

• 10 days later, Rachel’s pregnancy test was positive.
• Everyone celebrated — over Zoom, tears and cheers!

The Pregnancy Journey

Diary Entry: Month 6–14

“I treated the pregnancy like a precious loan. Every kick reminded me this was someone else’s miracle growing inside me.”

Rachel had regular prenatal appointments and video chats with the Intended Parents after major milestones (ultrasounds, heartbeat checks).

Support from the agency, counselors, and her own family helped her emotionally balance carrying a child she wouldn’t raise.

Birth Day: A Life-Changing Moment

Diary Entry: Month 15

“The delivery was beautiful. The Intended Mom was right there, holding my hand. When I saw them meet their baby for the first time, it was the most rewarding moment of my life.”

Rachel had her own hospital room for recovery.
The Intended Parents took their baby to their room just hours after delivery — filled with gratitude and joy.

Post-Birth Recovery and Reflections

Diary Entry: Month 16

“My body healed, and my heart felt full.
I wasn’t sad — I was proud. I gave someone the greatest gift possible.”

Rachel stayed in touch with the family through occasional updates and pictures — a relationship built on trust and mutual gratitude.

FAQs About Real Surrogacy Experiences

Q: Do surrogates feel depressed after giving birth?

Ans. Rarely. Emotional preparation and support from agencies like Surrogacy4All help surrogates transition joyfully after delivery.

Q: Can I choose the Intended Parents?

Ans. Yes! Matching is mutual. You will only carry for parents you feel comfortable with.

Q: What support do surrogates receive during pregnancy?

Ans. Regular agency check-ins, mental health counseling, medical monitoring, and 24/7 support.

Final Words

Surrogacy is a journey of generosity, strength, and heart. Real stories like Rachel’s show that while the path may have challenges, it’s ultimately filled with beauty, purpose, and deep personal pride.

At Surrogacy4All, we are proud to support surrogates at every step — before, during, and after their journeys.

Feeling inspired to start your own surrogacy journey?

Apply to become a surrogate with Surrogacy4All today!