Key Questions to Ask Surrogacy Experts
Choosing the right surrogacy agency can feel overwhelming. With so many agencies offering various services, pricing structures, and promises, knowing the right questions to ask can make a significant difference. Your agency will be your guide throughout one of the most meaningful journeys of your life, so it’s crucial to pick a partner you trust.
Here’s a list of the top 10 essential questions every intended parent (or potential surrogate) should ask before choosing a surrogacy agency.
1. How Are Surrogates Screened?
One of the most important services a surrogacy agency provides is surrogate screening. Ask:
- What medical, psychological, and background checks are conducted?
- Are surrogates required to have prior successful pregnancies?
- How are lifestyle factors, such as smoking or substance use, evaluated?
 Learn more about our Surrogate Screening Process.
2. What Support Services Are Offered?
Surrogacy is more than just a legal or medical process — it’s an emotional journey. Find out:
- Is emotional counseling provided for surrogates and intended parents?
- Is there a support group or community access?
- Are case managers assigned for personal guidance?
3. How Transparent Are the Costs?
Understanding surrogacy costs is vital. You should ask:
- What are the agency fees, surrogate compensation, legal fees, and insurance costs?
- Are there hidden costs?
- What refund policies exist if the process is not successful?
See a full Surrogacy Cost Breakdown.
4. How Are Surrogates Matched With Intended Parents?
- How does the matching process work?
- Can we meet the surrogate beforehand?
- Can we set specific preferences for our match (location, values, communication style)?
5. What Legal Support Is Available?
Surrogacy involves complex legal arrangements.
- Does the agency provide access to specialized surrogacy attorneys?
- Who handles the drafting and review of contracts?
- What legal protections are in place for both parties?
6. What Is the Average Timeline?
Ask for a realistic view of the timeline.
- How long does it typically take from application to delivery?
- What factors could delay the process?
- What support is available if there are setbacks?
7. How Are Medical Procedures Coordinated?
Medical services must be expertly coordinated.
- Which fertility clinics does the agency work with?
- How is embryo transfer managed?
- How is surrogate medical care monitored?
8. What Happens If the First Transfer Fails?
Failure to achieve pregnancy during the first embryo transfer can happen.
- What support do you offer in case of a failed transfer?
- Are there extra costs involved for additional transfers?
9. How Experienced Is the Agency?
Agency experience matters.
- How many years has the agency operated?
- How many successful matches have been made?
- Can you share client testimonials or references?
10. How Will Communication Be Handled?
Effective communication is essential.
- Will there be a dedicated case manager?
- How often will updates be provided?
- Can I reach out after hours in case of emergencies?
FAQs About Working with a Surrogacy Agency
Q: Should I choose a local agency or a national one?
Ans. Both have advantages. Local agencies may offer closer personal contact, while national agencies like Surrogacy4All have a broader pool of surrogates.
Q: What if the surrogate and intended parents disagree during the journey?
Ans. A well-drafted legal agreement and agency mediation support help resolve conflicts.
Q: Can I use my embryos created at a different fertility clinic?
Ans. Yes. Most agencies coordinate with outside clinics to make the process seamless.
Q: How do agencies screen intended parents?
Ans. Agencies often conduct background checks, psychological evaluations, and financial stability assessments.
Q: Can same-sex couples work with your agency?
Ans. Absolutely. Surrogacy4All proudly supports LGBTQ+ families.
Final Words
The right surrogacy agency will feel like a partner, not just a service provider. Asking these key questions will help ensure a smoother, more fulfilling journey.
Ready to start your surrogacy journey?
Schedule a free consultation with Surrogacy4All or Apply to Be a Surrogate Now.
Contact us at 1-212-661-7177 or info@surrogacy4all.com
Let’s build your family’s future, together.
Dr. Kulsoom Baloch
Dr. Kulsoom Baloch is a dedicated donor coordinator at Egg Donors, leveraging her extensive background in medicine and public health. She holds an MBBS from Ziauddin University, Pakistan, and an MPH from Hofstra University, New York. With three years of clinical experience at prominent hospitals in Karachi, Pakistan, Dr. Baloch has honed her skills in patient care and medical research.