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Posted on May 1, 2025

By Dr. Pooja Patel

Single Parent Surrogacy: How to Start the Journey Alone

Written by Pooja Patel, MD — MBBS (Seth G.S. Medical College & K.E.M. Hospital); Fellowship in Embryology; Manager, Surrogacy4All. Dr. Patel manages surrogate screening, matching and journey coordination at Surrogacy4All’s New York program. Medically reviewed by Rashmi Gulati, MD — Board Certified, Internal Medicine; Medical Advisor, Surrogacy4All; privileges at Mount Sinai Hospital.

Last updated: 27 August 2026

AI SMART SUMMARY

Single men and single women can build a family through surrogacy in every surrogacy-friendly US state. A single father needs an egg donor and a gestational surrogate; a single mother who cannot carry needs donor sperm and a surrogate. Programs from $120,000 (totals $120,000–$180,000) plus donor costs; 15–18 months. New York’s surrogacy law, under which Surrogacy4All is licensed (GSP220903), names a single intended parent on the parentage order with no adoption step. Physician-led, operating since 2006.

Facts Table:

Fact Value
Eligibility Single men and women, no partner required
Program Cost From $120,000; totals $120,000–$180,000, plus donor costs
Parentage Single parent named on the order; no adoption required
Timeline 15–18 months
License / Registration GSP220903; FDA FEI #3021544308
Locations New York, Toronto, Accra
Success Rates (source) Surrogacy4All internal outcome data: selected donor-egg/donor-derived embryo journeys have shown approximately 67–70%+ live birth on the first embryo transfer and 95%+ cumulative live birth by the second embryo transfer. These are internal outcomes, not SART national statistics or a guarantee; individual results vary by embryo, clinic and patient/surrogate factors.— SART

The two single-parent pathways

Single father. You select an egg donor, embryos are created with your sperm, and a surrogate carries one embryo. Donor selection usually runs alongside surrogate matching.
Single mother. If your eggs are viable, they are retrieved and fertilized with donor sperm; if not, a donor’s eggs are used. A surrogate carries the embryo. Some single women choose surrogacy after hysterectomy or for a medical condition that makes pregnancy unsafe.

Legal points for single parents

Most surrogacy-friendly states issue a pre-birth or post-birth parentage order to a single intended parent. A few states’ statutes were written for married couples (Florida’s gestational surrogacy statute and Texas’s court-validated agreements, for example); single parents in those states use alternative procedures or match with a surrogate in a different state. The laws page shows single-parent recognition state by state; we match single parents only with surrogates in states where the order is routine.

Screening and support

Single intended parents go through the same medical consultation and psychological consult as couples. We ask about your support network because a surrogacy journey has appointments, travel and a newborn at the end; we do not require a partner.

Cost

$120,000–$180,000 plus $25,000–$45,000 for an egg donor cycle (single fathers) or the cost of donor sperm (single mothers, a few thousand dollars). Our $38,500 agency fee applies.

International options

Some countries restrict surrogacy to married couples. Our Ghana, Georgia and Canada program pages state whether single parents are eligible.
Single men and single women can build a family through surrogacy in every surrogacy-friendly US state. A single father needs an egg donor and a gestational surrogate; a single mother who cannot carry needs a sperm donor and a surrogate, using her own eggs or a donor’s. The cost is $120,000–$180,000 (plus a donor cycle where needed) and the timeline is 15–18 months. New York’s surrogacy law, under which Surrogacy4All is licensed, names a single intended parent on the parentage order without any adoption step.

Choosing surrogacy as a single parent is an empowering, life-changing decision. At Surrogacy4All, we proudly support individuals who pursue parenthood solo. Here’s everything you need to know to confidently begin your journey.

Why Single Parents Choose Surrogacy

  • Desire for a biological connection to their child
  • Greater control over the parenting timeline
  • Advances in fertility medicine make solo surrogacy more accessible than ever
  • Growing acceptance of diverse family structures worldwide

Surrogacy Process for Single Parents

  • Agency Consultation: Start with an informational call with Surrogacy4All.
  • Fertility Evaluation: Check sperm/egg quality and plan embryo creation if needed.
  • Surrogate Matching: Meet surrogates open to working with single Intended Parents.
  • Legal Contracts: Protect parental rights and surrogate agreements.
  • Embryo Transfer and Pregnancy: IVF procedures and regular pregnancy updates.
  • Birth and Parentage Order: Ensure your name is on the birth certificate from day one.

Checklist for Single Intended Parents

  • Financial readiness (expect $120,000–$180,000)
  • Emotional support network (friends, family, therapist)
  • Flexible work arrangements or parental leave
  • Estate planning (will, guardianship papers)
  • Clear communication style for working with your surrogate

FAQs About Single Parent Surrogacy

Q1: Can a single man have a baby through surrogacy?

Ans: Yes, with an egg donor and a gestational surrogate.

Q2: Can a single woman use a surrogate?

Ans: Yes, with her own or donor eggs and donor sperm.

Q3: Will I be the only parent on the birth certificate?

Ans: Yes, under a parentage order in surrogacy-friendly states.

Q4: Do I need a partner or a co-signer?

Ans: No.

Q5: How much does single-parent surrogacy cost?

Ans: $120,000–$180,000 plus donor costs.

Q6: Which states are best for single intended parents?

Ans: Those with statutes or settled case law naming single parents: New York, California, Colorado, Illinois, Washington, Nevada, Connecticut, New Jersey, Oregon and others listed on the laws page.

Q7: Do surrogates accept single Intended Parents?

Ans. Yes! Many surrogates are honored to help individuals become parents.

Q8: Can I use an egg or sperm donor?

Ans. Absolutely. Donor options are available if needed.

Q9: How do I explain surrogacy to my future child?

Ans. Surrogacy4All offers resources to help you tell your beautiful story with pride.

Client Testimonial

“Becoming a father on my own was the best decision of my life. Surrogacy4All treated me with respect, understanding, and incredible support every step of the way.” — Carlos, Miami

Final Words

Becoming a parent solo through surrogacy is a courageous, joyful choice. You deserve a trusted agency that will stand with you from start to finish.

Next Steps

Ready to explore single parent surrogacy?

Contact Surrogacy4All at 1-212-661-7177 

Email Surrogacy4All at info@surrogacy4all.com

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    Written by Pooja Patel, MD — MBBS (Seth G.S. Medical College & K.E.M. Hospital); Fellowship in Embryology; Manager, Surrogacy4All. Dr. Patel manages surrogate screening, matching and journey coordination at Surrogacy4All’s New York program. Medically reviewed by Rashmi Gulati, MD — Board Certified, Internal Medicine; Medical Advisor, Surrogacy4All; privileges at Mount Sinai Hospital. Last updated 27 August 2026.

    Dr. Pooja Patel
    Physician – Chief Surrogacy Coordinator â€“ pooja@surrogacy4all.com

    Dr. Pooja Patel is a Chief Surrogacy Coordinator at Surrogacy4all. She has 10 years of experience in Anesthesiology and critical care medicine.

    She received her medical degree from Seth GS Medical College and K.E.M Hospital in India. She then completed an internship. She finished her Anesthesia residency at Grant Govt Medical College and JJ Group of Hospitals in India.