Introduction
Becoming a surrogate for the first time is exciting, emotional, and incredibly meaningful. While it may feel overwhelming, knowing what to expect can help ease nerves and boost your confidence. At Surrogacy4All, we’ve supported hundreds of first-time surrogates—and we’re here to walk you through every step. This guide offers a complete overview of what happens before, during, and after your first surrogacy journey.
Step 1: Application and Pre-Screening
You’ll begin by completing an online application and answering questions about your medical history, family support, and motivations for surrogacy. Our team will review your answers and schedule a phone consultation.
Step 2: Medical and Psychological Evaluations
We’ll request your OB/GYN records, conduct bloodwork and ultrasounds, and have a licensed counselor perform a psychological evaluation. This ensures your physical and emotional readiness.
Step 3: Matching and Introduction
You’ll be introduced to one or more intended parents based on mutual preferences. Once both sides agree, the match is formalized, and you move to the legal stage.
Step 4: Contracts and Escrow Setup
You’ll receive independent legal representation, paid for by the intended parents. Your surrogacy agreement outlines everything from compensation to travel support. Once signed, funds are placed in escrow to ensure timely reimbursement.
Step 5: IVF Medications and Embryo Transfer
You’ll take hormones to prepare your body for embryo implantation. The transfer is a simple, non-surgical procedure. Most surrogates say it’s painless and quick.
Step 6: Prenatal Care and Surrogacy Support
You’ll have regular appointments with your OB/GYN. Surrogacy4All offers:
- Monthly care packages
- 24/7 case management support
- Online peer groups and wellness resources
Step 7: Delivery and Beyond
You’ll give birth in a hospital near you, with the intended parents usually present. Postpartum, we support you with mental health counseling, recovery assistance, and a chance to connect with our Surrogate Alumni Network.
The Emotional Side of Being a First-Time Surrogate
It’s normal to feel nervous, excited, or even unsure at times. Many surrogates experience:
- Joy in helping create life
- Empowerment through the journey
- Deep emotional connections with families
We ensure you never walk the path alone.
First-Time Surrogates Share Their Stories
“I didn’t know what to expect, but Surrogacy4All walked me through every stage.” – Lisa, Florida
“It was more emotional than I thought—but in a beautiful way.” – Hanna, Ohio
“I’ve never felt so appreciated. It changed my life too.” – Samira, Arizona
Frequently Asked Questions
Q. Can I choose the intended parents?
Ans. Yes. Matching is based on mutual preferences and personalities.
Q. How long does the journey last?
Ans. About 12–18 months from application to postpartum.
Q. Do I need to stop working?
Ans. Not necessarily. Many surrogates continue working part-time or remotely.
Conclusion
Your first surrogacy journey will be unforgettable. It’s a chance to help others, grow emotionally, and be celebrated for your gift. At Surrogacy4All, we provide everything you need to feel confident and cared for—because you deserve nothing less.
Call to Action
1-212-661-7177
info@surrogacy4all.com
https://www.surrogacy4all.com/become-a-surrogate-in-usa
Dr. Pooja Patel
Dr. Pooja Patel is a Chief Surrogacy Coordinator at Surrogacy4all. She has 10 years of experience in Anesthesiology and critical care medicine.
She received her medical degree from Seth GS Medical College and K.E.M Hospital in India. She then completed an internship. She finished her Anesthesia residency at Grant Govt Medical College and JJ Group of Hospitals in India.