Introduction
If you’re considering becoming a surrogate, one of your first questions might be: How much time will this take? The answer varies depending on your health, how quickly you’re matched, and the journey itself. At Surrogacy4All, we help you plan for every stage of the process, ensuring you’re supported at each step. In this blog, we break down the time commitment involved in a typical surrogacy journey.
Surrogacy Timeline: Step-by-Step
1. Application and Screening (1–2 Months):
Submit your application and medical records and undergo initial screening. This includes background checks, a psychological evaluation, and health exams.
2. Matching with Intended Parents (1–3 Months):
You’ll be introduced to intended parents who share your values. Mutual matching and agreement can take anywhere from a few weeks to a few months.
3. Legal Contracts (2–4 Weeks):
Independent legal representation is provided to you. You’ll review, negotiate, and sign a legal contract outlining all expectations and protections.
4. IVF and Embryo Transfer (1–2 Months):
Begin hormone medications to prepare your body for transfer. You’ll attend monitoring appointments and complete the transfer procedure.
5. Pregnancy (9 Months):
Regular prenatal check-ups, wellness visits, and a birth plan tailored to you and the intended parents. You may also attend virtual or in-person meetings with the family.
Other Time Commitments
- Travel Time: Some appointments may require travel to a fertility clinic or OB/GYN office.
- Recovery Time: Post-birth recovery typically takes 4–6 weeks. You’ll receive continued care and support during this period
- Communication: Staying in touch with case managers, mentors, and the intended parents may take a few hours each month.
Average Weekly Time Investment
- Pre-pregnancy stages: 2–5 hours per week for appointments, forms, and communication.
- Pregnancy (1st & 2nd trimester): 3–6 hours per week for checkups and medication.
- Pregnancy (3rd trimester): 5–8 hours per week, including more frequent monitoring.
- Postpartum: 1–3 hours weekly for check-ins, emotional care, and final reimbursements.
Average 8 hours per week over 44 weeks, or 350 hours.
You get reimbursed or paid about $65,000 to be a surrogate on average = $65,000/350 = $185 per hour.
Balancing Surrogacy with Your Life
- Use calendar apps and reminders for all appointments and medications.
- Choose appointment times that align with your work or family schedule.
- Ask for support from friends or family to help with household responsibilities.
- Communicate with your employer early about flexibility or leave options.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q. Can I be a surrogate if I work full-time?
Ans. Yes. Many surrogates work during pregnancy, especially in office or remote roles.
Q. Will I be reimbursed for missed work?
Ans. Yes, if medically necessary or for travel-related appointments.
Q. How long is the total process?
Ans. 12–18 months from start to postpartum care.
Conclusion
Being a surrogate requires time, dedication, and heart—but it’s absolutely doable with the right support. Surrogacy4All guides you through every phase of your journey, making sure your schedule and well-being are always prioritized. We’re here to make the process meaningful, manageable, and truly life-changing.
Call to Action
1-212-661-7177
info@surrogacy4all.com
https://www.surrogacy4all.com/become-a-surrogate-in-usa
Dr. Pooja Patel
Dr. Pooja Patel is a Chief Surrogacy Coordinator at Surrogacy4all. She has 10 years of experience in Anesthesiology and critical care medicine.
She received her medical degree from Seth GS Medical College and K.E.M Hospital in India. She then completed an internship. She finished her Anesthesia residency at Grant Govt Medical College and JJ Group of Hospitals in India.