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Posted on May 11, 2025

By Dr. Pooja Patel

Common Misconceptions About Being a Surrogate

Introduction 

Surrogacy is often misunderstood. Many women who are interested in becoming surrogates hesitate due to misinformation or outdated myths. At Surrogacy4All, we’re here to clear the air. Below are the most common misconceptions about surrogacy—and the truth behind each one. 

Top 10 Myths About Being a Surrogate 

Myth 1: Surrogates get attached to the baby

Truth: Surrogates understand from day one that they’re carrying a baby for someone else. With counseling, legal clarity, and support, emotional boundaries remain strong. 

Myth 2: Surrogacy is only for money 

Truth: While surrogates are reimbursed, most women do it to help others experience the joy of parenthood. It’s both a personal and altruistic journey. 

Myth 3: Surrogacy is illegal 

Truth: Surrogacy is legal in many U.S. states with well-regulated protections for both parties. Surrogacy4All only operates in surrogacy-friendly jurisdictions. 

Myth 4: Surrogates have to use their own egg 

Truth: With gestational surrogacy, the surrogate has no genetic link to the child. The embryo is created from the intended parents’ or donor’s egg and sperm. 

Myth 5: Surrogates don’t receive support 

Truth: Surrogates are supported through counseling, medical monitoring, legal protection, and a personal case manager at every step. 

Myth 6: Surrogates must be perfect 

Truth: Surrogates must meet health criteria, but perfection is not required. Most surrogates are everyday moms with healthy prior pregnancies. 

Myth 7: The process is unsafe 

Truth: IVF and pregnancy carry manageable risks. Surrogates are carefully screened and monitored to protect their health. 

Myth 8: You can’t work while being a surrogate 

Truth: Many surrogates continue working or caring for their families. Lost wages are reimbursed if bed rest is required. 

Myth 9: Surrogacy is emotionally traumatic 

Truth: With professional psychological screening and preparation, most surrogates report a positive, empowering experience. 

Myth 10: Surrogates are exploited 

Truth: Ethical agencies like Surrogacy4All ensure surrogates are empowered, respected, and fully informed before committing. 

Conclusion 

Surrogacy is surrounded by myths that don’t reflect the reality of today’s ethical and professional practices. If you’re curious about becoming a surrogate, Surrogacy4All offers clarity, compassion, and complete support. 

Call to Action

📞 1-212-661-7177
📧 info@surrogacy4all.com
🌐 https://www.surrogacy4all.com/become-a-surrogate-in-usa

Dr. Pooja Patel
Physician – Chief Surrogacy Coordinator  pooja@surrogacy4all.com

Dr. Pooja Patel is a Chief Surrogacy Coordinator at Surrogacy4all. She has 10 years of experience in Anesthesiology and critical care medicine.

She received her medical degree from Seth GS Medical College and K.E.M Hospital in India. She then completed an internship. She finished her Anesthesia residency at Grant Govt Medical College and JJ Group of Hospitals in India.