Shared Motherhood & Reciprocal IVF – When Both Moms Carry the Love

Two Moms, One Miracle

Love creates families — and technology allows both mothers to experience the same miracle.
In a shared motherhood (also known as reciprocal IVF) journey, one partner provides the eggs while the other carries the pregnancy. This approach allows both mothers in a same-sex female couple to participate biologically and emotionally in bringing their baby into the world.

At Surrogacy4All, we celebrate the diversity of families and proudly support LGBTQ+ couples in realizing their dream of parenthood through safe, ethical, and empowering fertility care.

Reciprocal IVF is not just a medical procedure — it’s a demonstration of partnership, equality, and love.

How Shared Motherhood Works

Reciprocal IVF uses the same basic principles of standard IVF but enables both partners to have a distinctive biological role.

Here’s how it works:

Ovarian Stimulation & Egg Retrieval (Partner A)

Partner A is stimulated to ripen her eggs. They are then retrieved in a simple procedure done under sedation by a specialist in fertility.

Fertilization with Donor Sperm

Eggs are fertilized in the laboratory using donor sperm from a selected, screened donor, yielding healthy embryos.

Embryo Transfer to Partner B’s Uterus

A chosen embryo is then implanted in Partner B’s womb, where it may implant and develop, enabling her to become pregnant and give birth.

Both women become co-creators of their child through this process:

• One contributes the genetic connection,
  
• The other provides the nurturing connection through pregnancy.
  

Together, they both enjoy the deep bond of motherhood right from the beginning.

The Emotional Impact of Shared Motherhood

Reciprocal IVF is not just about science — it’s about shared emotion, shared responsibility, and shared joy.

“Carrying my wife’s embryo felt like carrying a part of her heart.”
— Leah, Reciprocal IVF Mom

This distinctive journey to parenthood enables partners to be closer than ever before, further strengthening their relationship as they care for one another every step of the way — from hormone injections to heartbeat scans to the moment of birth.

For most couples, the process represents true equality in motherhood, where both partners’ love becomes entwined in the baby’s tale from the very first day.

Medical Steps & Typical Costs

Although reciprocal IVF incorporates several medical steps, Surrogacy4All provides a streamlined and transparent experience for all couples.

Procedure	Typical Cost (USD)
IVF & Lab Fees	$15,000–$18,000
Donor Sperm	$1,000–$3,000
Embryo Transfer & Monitoring	$5,000–$7,000

Our Toronto and New York partner clinics offer discounted Reciprocal IVF bundles, making shared motherhood more accessible without compromising quality or care.

We also assist with:

• Selecting sound sperm banks
• Coordinating medical records between clinics
• Counseling on emotional preparation and anticipations

Legal Guidance for Two-Mom Families

Legal recognition is a crucial part of the reciprocal IVF process. Both partners must be legally recognized as parents of the child — something that varies by state or province.

At Surrogacy4All, our legal team ensures that both mothers’ parental rights are fully protected:

• Drafting and reviewing parentage orders
• Coordinating with local family courts
• Ensuring both names appear on the child’s birth certificate before delivery
  

Our goal is to make sure your family begins its journey with absolute security and peace of mind.

Why Choose Surrogacy4All for Reciprocal IVF?

• LGBTQ+ Affirming Clinics : Our partner clinics are trained in inclusive fertility care that celebrates all family types.
• Comprehensive Medical Oversight : Board-certified fertility specialists oversee every stage — from stimulation to embryo transfer.
• Ethical Transparency : Clear costs, open communication, and complete consent at every step.
• Emotional Support : Access to counselors who specialize in LGBTQ+ family building and fertility journeys.

We’re honored to make shared motherhood not only possible — but personal, empowering, and filled with love.

Your family chapter begins with love — let us assist you in writing the next one.

Ready to begin your journey of shared motherhood?

Schedule your Reciprocal IVF consultation today. Call now +1 212-661-7177