At Surrogacy4All, we understand that even though you use a surrogate mother the desire to breastfeed your child is a powerful and deeply personal one—even if you didn’t carry the pregnancy yourself. Whether you’re a mother through a gestational carrier or a female partner in a same-sex couple, induced lactation offers a remarkable opportunity to bond with your baby through nursing.
What Is Induced Lactation?
Induced lactation is the process of stimulating milk production in a woman who has not been pregnant. With guidance and support, non-pregnant women can successfully produce breast milk using a combination of hormone therapy, breast pumping, and, in some cases, prolactin-inducing medications.
This process works by mimicking the hormonal environment of late pregnancy and postpartum. It should always be done under the care of a knowledgeable healthcare provider.
The Induced Lactation Protocol
The path to successful lactation without pregnancy typically involves the following key steps:
1. Hormone Therapy
Before the baby arrives, hormone therapy (often involving estrogen and progesterone) can simulate the hormonal state of late pregnancy. This helps the breast tissue prepare for milk production.
2. Breast Pumping Routine
Once hormone therapy is stopped (usually around 6–8 weeks before the expected delivery), frequent breast pumping—every 2 to 3 hours—is introduced. This stimulation mimics a newborn’s feeding pattern and signals the body to start producing milk.
3. Prolactin Treatments
Some women may be prescribed medications such as domperidone to increase prolactin levels, which further supports milk production.
After Birth: Initiating Breastfeeding
Once your baby is born, the journey continues with these essential practices:
- Begin Breastfeeding Immediately: Start nursing as soon as possible, even if full milk supply hasn’t been established yet. Baby’s suckling is one of the strongest natural stimulants for milk production.
- Keep Pumping: After each feeding, continue pumping to further stimulate the breasts. Frequent stimulation is key to increasing milk output.
- Consider Supplementation: In the early days or weeks, your milk supply may not fully meet your baby’s needs. Supplementing with formula or pasteurized donor milk is a safe and healthy way to ensure your baby receives complete nutrition while your supply builds
The Emotional and Physical Bond
Inducing lactation is not just about feeding—it’s about connection. For mothers who haven’t carried their child, breastfeeding offers a way to establish physical closeness and emotional intimacy right from the start. Many report that it enhances their sense of motherhood and deepens the bond with their baby.
With patience, commitment, and proper medical guidance, most women are able to produce milk and enjoy the many benefits of nursing. The experience of nurturing your child through breastfeeding can be incredibly fulfilling—an extension of your love that transcends biology.
We’re Here to Support You
At Surrogacy4All, we believe that every family’s journey is unique, and so is every mother’s experience. If you’re considering induced lactation, we can help connect you with one of our physicians and experienced healthcare providers and lactation consultants who specialize in this process. Please call 1-212-661-7673 to make an appointment.
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Step-by-Step: Induced Lactation Protocol
Here’s a simplified table that outlines the typical protocol for induced lactation:
| Phase | Action | Goal |
| Preparation Phase | Hormonal therapy (e.g., estrogen + progesterone, under doctor supervision) | Simulate pregnancy-like hormonal environment |
| Stimulation Phase | Stop hormones, begin pumping every 2–3 hours | Mimic newborn feeding to trigger milk production |
| Prolactin Support | Consider medications (e.g., domperidone, if prescribed) | Boost milk-making hormone levels |
| Post-Birth Phase | Start breastfeeding immediately after birth | Encourage milk flow and bonding with baby |
| Ongoing Stimulation | Continue frequent pumping + breastfeeding | Build and maintain milk supply |
| Supplement as Needed | Use formula or donor milk as temporary support | Ensure full nutrition until supply stabilizes |
A clean visual of a clock with icons showing pumping times (every 2–3 hours), labeled with “Consistency is Key.”
A mother holding her baby close to her chest. No direct breastfeeding is shown—just nurturing contact.
Hormonal Journey
showing the hormonal timeline from the beginning of therapy to milk production.
